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Abigail Folger
Folger in her most widely circulated photo, shortly before she was murdered in 1969
Abigail Anne Folger

(1943-08-11)August 11, 1943
DiedAugust 9, 1969(1969-08-09) (aged 25)
Benedict Canyon, Los Angeles, California, U.S.
Cause of deathStab to the aorta
Resting placeHoly Cross Cemetery, Colma
Other namesGibbie
EducationSanta Catalina School
Alma materRadcliffe College
Harvard University
OccupationSocialite, volunteer, activist
Parent(s)Peter Folger
Ines "Pui" Mejia
RelativesJ. A. Folger (great-grandfather)

Abigail Anne "Gibbie" Folger (August 11, 1943 – August 9, 1969) was an American socialite, volunteer, civil rights devotee, and member of the prominent Folger family. She was the great-granddaughter of J. A. Folger, the founder of Folgers Coffee.

Folger, her boyfriend Wojciech Frykowski, actress Sharon Tate, hairstylist Jay Sebring, and an 18-year old man named Steven Parent, were murdered by followers of Charles Manson at Tate's home at 10050 Cielo Drive in August 1969.

Four of Manson's followers, Susan Atkins, Charles "Tex" Watson, and Patricia Krenwinkel Leslie Van Houten , were later convicted and sentenced to death for the murders. Their sentences were later commuted to life when California abolished the death penalty.

Early life[]

Folger was born in San Francisco. Her parents were Peter Folger, Chairman and President of the Folger Coffee Company, and Ines "Pui" Mejia (1907–2007), the youngest child of Gertrude and Encarnacion Mejia, a consul general of El Salvador.[1] She had a younger brother, Peter, Jr. (born 1945). Her Roman Catholic parents divorced in 1952 when she was nine years old, after her mother ended the marriage on the grounds of extreme cruelty. In 1960, her father married again, this time to his 24-year-old private secretary, Beverly Mater, who was already pregnant with his youngest daughter, Elizabeth, born in January 1961.

Growing up in San Francisco, Folger was interested in art, books, poetry and playing the piano. Close friends and family called her "Gibbie".[2]


Folger attended Santa Catalina School in Monterey, California, near Carmel.[3] She graduated with honors in June 1961. She then matriculated at Radcliffe College in Cambridge, Massachusetts in the fall of 1961. During her time at Radcliffe, Folger became an active member of the college's Gilbert and Sullivan Players, a musical theatre group. She starred in two of its productions, starting with The Sorcerer in April 1963 where she played the part of one of the town's villagers. In December 1963, she starred in The Gondoliers as one of the Contadine. She graduated with honors from Radcliffe in 1964.

While a freshman in college, Folger held her coming out party on December 21, 1961 at the St. Francis Hotel in San Francisco, where she made her official debut into San Francisco's high society. Her debutante ball was one of the highlights of the social season, with Folger wearing a bright yellow Christian Dior gown that she had purchased in Paris the previous summer.[4]

After graduating from Radcliffe, she enrolled in the fall of 1964 at Harvard University, also in Cambridge, where she did graduate work and received a degree in Art History. After graduating in the spring of 1967, Folger took a job at the University of California Art Museum in Berkeley, California as a publicity director. While employed there, her main job was to organize the fine art museum council.

Move to New York City[]

In September 1967, Folger decided to leave California and move to New York City, where she got a job working for a magazine publisher. She eventually left for a job at the Gotham Book Mart on 47th Street. Folger's annual income from her inheritances, after taxes, was $130,000 a year (the equivalent of $838,193 a year in 2009 dollars).[5]

Charity work[]

Like her mother, Ines, who did charity work with the Haight-Ashbury Free Medical Clinic in San Francisco, Folger continued with voluntarism. She registered as an unsalaried for the Los Angeles County Welfare Department in September 1968. Earlier, in the spring and summer of 1968, she attended her mother's fundraisers for the Haight-Ashbury Free Medical Clinic. At that time, many of the Manson family women were being treated there. Back in Los Angeles, Folger spent long days in the ghettos doing her job as a volunteer with children, waking up at dawn each day.

Folger's work as a volunteer soon began to affect her and she became depressed.


From April to May 1968, Folger became a political volunteer for the presidential campaign of New York Senator Robert F. Kennedy. She donated both time and money to the Kennedy campaign. The campaign soon came to an end when Kennedy was assassinated in Los Angeles in early June.

The next year during the month of April and continuing through most of May, she was a political volunteer for the campaign of Tom Bradley, a black councilman running for mayor of Los Angeles. She contributed both her time and a large amount of her own money to the Bradley campaign. Bradley lost to Sam Yorty in late May, which left Folger feeling bitter and disillusioned. This led her to become very involved with the civil rights movement that summer.

Relationship with Wojciech Frykowski[]

In December 1967, Folger met Polish author Jerzy Kosinski at a bookstore party. Kosinski was married to American steel heiress Mary Hayward Weir. Weir traveled in the same wealthy circle as Folger, and introduced Kosinski to Folger. In early January 1968, Kosinski introduced Folger to his friend, aspiring writer Wojciech Frykowski, at a party and the two liked each other. Frykowski had then been living in the United States for a month.

Frykowski was not then fluent in English, but, like Folger, he was fluent in French. She gave him a tour of New York, began to teach him English, and they fell in love. He moved into her New York City apartment and she supported him financially.

Move to Los Angeles[]

In August 1968, both Folger and Frykowski decided to move to Los Angeles. He wanted to pursue his writing career while Folger wanted to get involved with a new welfare project that was currently under way. She rented a car, and she and Frykowski drove across the country.

In Los Angeles, she found a two-story hilltop home to rent at 2774 Woodstock Road for her and Wojciech in Laurel Canyon, and bought a 1968 yellow Firebird. Their neighbor across the road was singer Cass Elliot of the musical group The Mamas & the Papas, whom the couple quickly befriended. Through Frykowski, Folger met director Roman Polanski and his wife, actress Sharon Tate. Through the Polanskis, Folger and Frykowski were introduced to Jay Sebring. The five quickly began to hang out together and were known to be a part of "the beautiful people crowd" in Hollywood.

On March 23, 1969, Folger and Frykowski were at the Polanskis' home at 10050 Cielo Drive for a going away dinner party for Tate, who was leaving for Rome the next day. Sebring was there, as well as Tate's friend Shahrokh Hatami, an Iranian photographer. Rudi Altobelli, the owner of the Cielo home, had attended the party briefly, but soon returned to his guest house to pack for his upcoming trip to Europe. The incident involved a strange-looking man who had appeared on the property as the occupants of the house sat in the dining room, which faced the front of the residence. Hatami felt uneasy about this stranger roaming the Polanski estate, and went outside to confront the man. From the front porch, the party inside could be seen through the large dining room windows. Hatami asked the stranger if he could help him. The stranger said he was looking for someone by the name of Terry Melcher, a name Hatami did not recognize. Hatami made it clear to the stranger that this was the Polanski residence, and suggested that perhaps the person he was looking for lived in the guest house. During the trial, Hatami identified the stranger as Charles Manson.

Move to 10050 Cielo Drive[]

On April 1, 1969, while Roman Polanski was away in Europe filming movies, Folger and Frykowski moved into the Polanskis' Cielo Drive home in Benedict Canyon, at Polanski's request. At the same time, their Woodstock Road home was being occupied by Wojciech's friend, Polish artist Witold-K, who had arrived in the United States the previous December. A day earlier, Folger had quit her job as a volunteer. It was around this time that Folger's relationship with Frykowski began to deteriorate, and she considered leaving him. Constantly fighting, the pair sank lower into the world of drugs which had long passed the experimental stage.

In May 1969, Folger and her mother Ines attended the San Francisco opening of Jay Sebring's newest shop at 629 Commercial Street. Folger enjoyed the champagne reception and found herself mingling with such guests as Paul Newman, Joanne Woodward, Doris Tate, and her husband Paul (Sharon Tate's parents).

On July 8, 1969, Folger and Frykowski learned that Sharon Tate would be returning to the U.S. later that month. The couple then began to move most of their clothing from Cielo Drive back to their own home on Woodstock Road. They informed Wojciech's friend, Witold-K, that they would be soon returning to live in their home after Sharon's arrival.

On July 20, 1969, Tate returned to California from London and asked Folger and Frykowski to remain at 10050 Cielo Drive with her until her husband Roman Polanski arrived on August 12. Folger, Frykowski, Tate and Sebring, along with Tate's parents and two younger sisters, all watched the moon landing on television.

On August 6, 1969 film director Michael Sarne invited Folger, Frykowski and Tate over for a dinner party at his rented Malibu beach house. After dessert had been served, Tate began to feel unwell, so it was decided that Folger and Frykowski would drive her home.


On August 8, 1969, Folger and Frykowski ran some errands together. Folger purchased a yellow, lightweight bicycle around 2 p.m. from a shop on Santa Monica Boulevard and arranged for it to be delivered to Cielo Drive later that afternoon. She and Frykowski then drove back to the Polanski home and had a late lunch with Tate and her friends, Joanna Pettet and Barbara Lewis, on the front lawn patio. The late lunch was served to the party of five by Winifred Chapman, the Polanskis' housekeeper. Shortly after, at around 3:45 p.m., Folger left Cielo Drive in her Firebird in order to keep an appointment she had later that afternoon. Frykowski left minutes later, in Tate's rented 1969 red Camaro, to unload a box at the couple's Woodstock Road home.[6]

That evening, just after 9 p.m., Folger, Frykowski, Jay Sebring, and Tate went out to a Mexican restaurant called El Coyote. Returning home, Frykowski fell asleep on the couch while Folger was in her room reading. Her mother called her at 10 p.m. that night to verify their weekend plans. She was scheduled to fly to San Francisco at 10 a.m. Saturday morning on United Airlines in order to celebrate her birthday.[7]

During the early morning hours of August 9, three of Charles Manson's followers: Susan Atkins, Charles "Tex" Watson, and Patricia Krenwinkel, broke into the Cielo Drive home and killed Folger, Sharon Tate, Jay Sebring and Wojciech Frykowski.[8] Steven Parent, an 18-year old friend of the property's caretaker William Garrettson, was also killed when he encountered the group in the driveway of the home.[9]

When investigators were called in later that morning, the scene which greeted them was unlike anything they had ever witnessed. On the lawn lay the bodies of Folger and Wojciech Frykowski, separated by just a few feet. Folger had been stabbed twenty-eight times and died from a stab wound to the aorta.[10] Although the coroner found the drug MDA in Folger's system, they reached the conclusion that she was fully aware of what was happening when the attack occurred.[11] Frykowski had been shot twice, struck in the head thirteen times with a blunt object, and stabbed a total of fifty-one times.[12] Sharon Tate had been stabbed sixteen times, and Jay Sebring had been shot twice and stabbed seven times.[13]

During her trial, Patricia Krenwinkle admitted that she had chased Folger onto the lawn and stabbed her.[14] Krenwinkle said Folger told her to stop stabbing her stating, "I'm already dead."[15]

Folger's body was returned to San Francisco and taken to Crippen and Flynn Mortuary in Redwood City. Her funeral was held on the morning of August 13, 1969, at Our Lady of the Wayside Church in Portola Valley, a church that had been built by her grandparents, the Mejias, in 1912. Following a Catholic Requiem Mass, Folger was entombed at Holy Cross Cemetery in Colma, California.[16] Folger was survived by her parents, Peter and Ines, her brother, Peter, Jr. then 24, and sister, Elizabeth, then 8.

After her death, investigators reported that Folger's estate was worth $530,000. She left no will.


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  2. Steiger 1991, p. 118
  3. "Search for something more - lead to death". The Bryan Times. August 18, 1969. http://news.google.com/newspapers?id=UE4LAAAAIBAJ&sjid=TlIDAAAAIBAJ&pg=7145,2456088&dq=abigail+folger+debutante&hl=en. Retrieved 15 November 2012. 
  4. Bugliosi 2001, p. 59
  5. Sanders 2002, p. 94-95
  6. Sanders 2002, p. 197
  7. Bugliosi 2001, p. 85
  8. Hoskyns 2009, p. 184-185
  9. Sandford 2002, p. 142
  10. Blanche 1998, p. 129
  11. Bugliosi 2001, p. 60
  12. Bugliosi 2001, p. 61
  13. Bugliosi 2001, p. 58
  14. Jabali-Nash, Naimah (January 21, 2011). "Patricia Krenwinkel, Charles Manson Follower, Denied Parole; "Crimes Remain Relevant," Says Official". cbsnews.com. Archived from the original on January 19, 2013. Retrieved December 27, 2012.<templatestyles src="Module:Citation/CS1/styles.css"></templatestyles>
  15. Vronsky 2007, p. 82
  16. Bugliosi 2001, p. 82


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  • Blanche, Tony; Schrieber, Brad (1998). Death in Paradise: An Illustrated History of the Los Angeles County Department of Coroner. General Pub. Group
  • Bugliosi, Vincent; Gentry, Curt (2001). Helter Skelter: The True Story of the Manson Murders. W. W. Norton & Company. ISBN 0-393-32223-8
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  • Vronsky, Peter (2007). Female Serial Killers: How and Why Women Become Monsters. Penguin. ISBN 0-425-21390-0

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